My Niece (age 12) broke up with her boyfriend, they had been dating for nearly 2 years.
She’s naturally distraught over this, as most teenagers are and is having a bad time.
I find out today that her boyfriend’s mother has been messaging her, making it essentially worse by prolonging her grief process with the possibility that she could get back together with her boyfriend.
The messages started with ‘have you gotten our gift’ they sent a gift in the mail for her birthday. My niece replied with ‘no but I would have prefered you give it in person, it’s a little rude’
10pm last night, the lady tags this on her facebook wall
My niece is a 12 year old girl in grief and this lady is like 40.
My sister has called her boyfriend’s dad and talked with him how inappropriate it is and he said he’d do something about it but the post is still up there 12 hours later.
I want so badly to send an angry vitriolic message, but I know that doesn’t help. I mean who the fuck does shit like this.
I don’t think I have the willpower not to be incredibly passive aggressive in requesting for her to remove it either.
Any help?
DRAG HER That woman clearly can’t be an adult about such a thing so talk to her like the small child she is, condensensing tone and all. The moment she pulled that on your niece, she lost all respect she would have had and any chance she’d be talked to and handled like an adult.
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