no offense but yall gotta stop acting like its the end of the world if a bi girl ends up with a guy
but then there’s no cute lesbian-ness and that’s what makes it so gr8
honestly shut up
do these ppl realize that bi girls are actual people who aren’t getting into relationships for the sole purpose of performing good politics / cuteness / adequate proof of their same gender attraction / whatever else you’re judging them on 2day.. bi women’s relationships are Not For You, bi women shouldn’t have to wake up daily and think “how do I make my personal interactions with other people good and pure in the eyes of others.”
one of the most damaging things about biphobia is that girls attracted to multiple genders end up constantly and guiltily analyzing their personal (and I’m gonna repeat, personal) relationships for ideological purity, whether or not they’re performing LGBT-ness hard enough, whether enough their relationships look good enough to others, etc etc, and that’s not at all conducive to a healthy relationship. when u have bi girls spending more time thinking of whether or not their relationship is good enough for others than, idk, if their relationships are healthy and loving and fulfilling or not, that’s an issue.
saying u approve of bi women in w/w relationships more because “it’s cuter” is such a fetishy way of looking at w/w relationships and lesbian/bi women in general, I can’t tell if the commenter is a lesbian/bi woman or not but if not that makes it even creepier, especially the way they talked about “lesbian relationships” being cuter like.. that shit harms and fetishizes both lesbians and bi women, knock it off.
Okay I’m a lesbian/bi woman and I think this post is lacking an incredible amount of nuance, for example it’s ignoring the vast amount of harm done by heteronormativity and how it actively prevents people from being in healthy relationships, the fact that bisexual women constantly have their sexual orientation doubted on the basis that people think they/we are just trying to attract men or seem “edgy”, and the loneliness that inevitably results from being a queer person surrounded by straight people. None of this is to say that it’s bad for bisexual women to end up in relationships with men, but please let people have their reactions, and criticize them only if they try to police other people’s relationships.
I agree with purple. Bi’s are “okay” to me, but most of the time I react with a big “ehhhh” if one came up to me (and most of the time it has been women who come up to me). I’ll just say this, I’d rather be gay and deal with one gender than be bi and deal with double the headache and temptations (coming from me, who’s currently in a gay relationship for 7+ years)
What the fuck is this gross nonsense? Double the temptations? No one finds your crusty, biphobic ass tempting.
The amount of biphobia in the queer community continues to absolutely astound me.
The amount of biphobia I’ve seen here and else where is fucking terrifying
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