okay but like hear me out:
Ryder who came from a very non-affectionate family. They knew their family loved each other but they didn’t say it often or show it very much. Now imagine that Ryder at first being completely overwhelmed by Jaal’s affection.
Every time he just casually compliments them, they have to hide their face in their hands and ask him not to look at them until they compose themselves. He’s very confused about it but respects the request.