me: its okay
anxiety: you did something wrong
me: what? no…. it’s fine?
anxiety: is it?
me: uh, I… I don’t know, is it?
anxiety: no

What to Expect When Dating Someone Who Has An Anxiety Disorder.

ccatty:

mylifelivingwithanxiety:

– Them asking you the same question at least 10 times. 

– Them saying “I’m sorry” at least 5 times a day.

– You promising them everything is okay.

– Ordering food for them.

– Making phone calls for them.

– Repeating the same directions 3 times.

– Texts as soon as you leave.

– Sweaty palms.

– Constant reassuring.

– Them constantly changing their mind.

– ALWAYS BEING EARLY.

– NEVER BEING LATE. 

– Directions never being clear enough.

– Answering the same question MULTIPLE times.

– Them being nervous for seemingly simple tasks.

-Friday nights in.

-Weird triggers you will never understand.

-Tears. Lots of tears.

-Sudden silence when they feel an attack coming on.

-Trouble going out to eat in a restaurant.

-Stomach aches.

-Late night phone calls.

-Giving them cuddles when they need it.

-Finding out signs they are nervous.

-Taking care of them when they are having an anxious day.

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